Is it True ?

Is it True ?

Do we have a self-limiting belief? Eg “I can’t because …”

Ask ourselves, what is the consequence of believing that thought? How does it make us feel? How do those feelings affect our daily lives?

Now consider how would we be if we didn’t have that thought? …

The Damned Lies We Tell Ourselves

The Damned Lies We Tell Ourselves

According to the Washington Post, President Trump told 30,573 lies or misleading claims during his presidency. Whether we believe that this behaviour was self-serving, malicious, or necessary depends on your point of view. Perhaps the Washington Post has slightly exaggerated the case? Afterall, even for someone as apparently accomplished at manipulation as Donald Trump, over 20 false statements on average for every day of his term does seem slightly excessive. That would mean barely anything he said was true?

Who do we believe? Can we believe anything anyone says? Do we need to? …

PTSD from Pain to Triumph

PTSD from Pain to Triumph

I have no words … this woman’s courage humbles me.

“Hi everyone

I just wanted to share my experiences with Rhys and Pax Bodywork and the changes I have seen in myself. I am in my 50’s, I have had long term pain and stiffness in my neck and hips due to an accident 25 years ago, I am dyslexic and to boot have a diagnosis of PTSD from childhood trauma which has caused me to hold a lot of tension in my body, not be at home in my body, get anxious and I found it hard to stay grounded in certain situations….

Get this party started!

Get this party started!

We are told that when we bring our focus into our body it's as if every single cell is jumping for joy, basking in our attention.

It's a very healing thing to do for ourselves.

There are about 40 trillion cells in the human body, almost the same as the number of stars in the Milky Way galaxy.

Imagine how good it will feel when those 40 trillion cells are all cheering for us.

Take a few moments now to come into our body, pay it some attention, and get this party started!

You May Know It

You May Know It

You May Know It

“And we dance to a whispered voice,

Overheard by the soul, undertook by the heart

And we may know it … if we may know it”

Neil Diamond may not immediately come to mind as a philosopher, but IMHO he was on to something in 1973 when he wrote the song “Be” as part of the Jonathan Livingstone Seagull album. On the face of it the story is about a wondering seagull. But actually, it is an allegory for life.

We know there is a presence deep inside each of us, much deeper than thought, nothing in fact to do with the crazy antics of our thinking mind. It’s an anchor, a rock, our place of surety…

How Deep Does Zero Balancing Go?

How Deep Does Zero Balancing Go?

How Deep Does Zero Balancing Go?

I have a middle-aged lady who comes to see me every month. She has had a number of physical challenges over many years and needs a walking stick. During the session she chat’s away about her current challenges, her struggles with the medical system, her garden or her animals - for the whole 45 minutes! She does not know how Zero Balancing helps her. All she knows is that she feels better afterwards, her joints hurt less, she feels more peaceful, and she sleeps better afterwards. Nothing else helps her like ZB.

To me it has become clear that there are two conversations going on at the same time here …

Stress Related Pain

Stress Related Pain

Most people think that stress related pain is held in the muscles of the back and neck. While that is partly true, what is not commonly known is that most tension is actually held deep in the bones.

The upper ribs between the shoulders are one classic site of this tension, with the pain often radiating along the rib under the scapula…

Why Peace?

Why Peace?

Why Peace?

People sometimes ask me what Pax means in my company name Pax Bodywork. I usually tell them that Pax is latin for Peace, and that Peace has always been an important value in my life.

Probably more accurately, Peace is an important state to live in, and I’m happy to say that I’m in that state most of the time these days.

Peace became especially important to me in the early 1980’s …

Zero Balancing FAQ's

Zero Balancing FAQ's

What is Zero Balancing?
Will Zero Balancing help me?
What can I expect at a Zero Balancing session?

👍 What is Zero Balancing?

Zero Balancing (ZB) is a non-diagnostic, holistic bodywork therapy. Gentle touch is used to ease tension through the skeleton and soft tissue, balancing structure and energy through the whole system to amplify vitality and support a greater sense of well-being…

Present Moment Awareness

Present Moment Awareness

Why present moment awareness?

When you are not AWARE you are at the mercy of thought. This allows anxiety and fear to manifest.

We mistakenly think that unless we worry about things, then we are not in control of our life. This is an error, we are not doing the thinking. Thinking is something that happens to us, it is self-serving and has no useful purpose. In fact the uncontrolled feelings of fear are one of the effects.

When we become AWARE of this we take the first step towards freedom. Without present moment awareness we have no free will.

So now we have a choice …

7 Simple Steps to Build Immunity

7 Simple Steps to Build Immunity

There is so much advice floating round in cyberspace right now on virus prevention and immunity. My own advice is fairly simple:

  1. Eat a balanced diet - maybe cut meat consumption to 1 meal a day, or even every other day. Eat more plant based food, and a variety.

  2. Exercise - during lock down that might be limited to walking, or home based options such as yoga, tai chi, treadmill and so on. Staying fit builds immunity and helps our tolerance to everyday stress.

  3. Try and get some sun on our skin each day...